I'm a little bit of a feminist. I'm not talking about feminazis or the bra-burners, but if I could go back in time I would stand next to Sojourner Truth and echo "Ain't I a woman?"
I couldn't agree more with Joss Whedon when he says that misogyny is not a true part of the human condition and that it takes away from our quality of life. Men and women were created equal, different, but equal. That equality, when it is fully realized, is such a beautiful thing and lives are changed. Right now, Iran is holding a woman, Sakineh, for supposedly committing adultery. There is a large campaign going on to save this woman from stoning and death. Iran has a long history of violence against women and it is time for that to end.
Why are women so often the focus of hate around the world? More often than not, women are viewed as dangerous. They are painted as the reason that sin came into the world and as a stumbling block to holiness and righteousness. Well here is some news, they are right in thinking that women are dangerous. Yes, we are dangerous because we have love, life, warmth, healing, gentleness, and strength within us and to those who spew hatred, those things are very dangerous.
Yet this effort to make women less than what they are does not end with the overt efforts of injustice by countries like Iran. No, our own American culture continues its own attempts neuter women to make them just like men, or at least a little less womanly. In today's culture, women are told that in order to be successful, you must be cold and calculating, unfeeling and self-focused. A successful woman will look no different from a man. I beg to differ. A successful woman is loving, warm, concerned with the welfare of others, eager to help others, and able to withstand the worst that life can throw at her. I know many such women, yet none of them would be labeled "successful" by our cultural standards. Perhaps what needs to be changed is our definition of success, from being an ideal to the reality of being who we are, completely and truthfully.
"Because equality is not a concept. It is not something we should be striving for. Equality is a necessity. Equality is like gravity, we need it to be able to stand on this earth as men and women. And the misogyny that is in every culture is not a true part of the human condition, it is life out of balance and that imbalance is sucking something out of the soul of every man and woman who is confronted with it. We need equality, kinda now." -Joss Whedon
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